Wedding Superstitions
We’ve all heard the old wives’ tales passed on from bride to bride – “something old, something new, something borrowed and something blue” – but have you ever wondered where those age-old wedding traditions might have come from?
Wedding ceremonies are steeped in rich history and culture, with some traditions still in practice today stretching as far back as the Ancient Greeks and Romans. Many of these superstitions come from a time when spirits played a huge role in our day to day lives, with many superstitions warding off the more mischievous ones that might want to cause some mayhem on your big day!
For example, the tradition of the groom carrying his newly-wedded bride across the threshold of their home was said to protect medieval brides from the trickster spirits that may lurk in places were the veil between worlds is thinnest – doorways being one! The bride was said to be most vulnerable through the soles of her feet, so the brave groom would carry her across the doorway to stop any naughty spirits who might try and snatch her away!
Rain on a wedding day, while a nightmare to some, may be symbolic of good luck and long-lasting marriage to others! The ancient Celtic tradition of tying the knot was said to welcome rain on a couple’s big day, as a wet knot is harder to untie. In Hindu tradition, rain symbolizes abundance and prosperity, washing away any lingering negativity.
In bygone times when it was customary to carry a sword, the bride traditionally stood to the groom’s left so that he had his strong sword-hand free to fight off any suitors – be they fairy or man!
Horseshoes are thought to bring good luck on a wedding day, with many brides choosing to carry one as part of their bouquet or jewelry. This stems from the fact that evil spirits and fairies can’t touch iron, as well as the crescent shape of a horseshoe representing the protection of the moon. With the horseshoe arches we have around Thief Hall, you can rest assured you’ll be well protected!
And it’s not just the bride and groom that need to watch out! If the best man should drop the rings, trickster spirits might be able to grab them! And did you know that we traditionally have bridesmaids in order to confuse any naughty fairies who might want to steal the bride away?
Tradition and culture are fascinating additions to any wedding, whether you believe in the myths behind them or not. As you plan your wedding, however, it’s important to remember that your big day is yours alone, and while some brides may enjoy wearing white and tossing the bouquet, however you chose to celebrate will be just as magical!
